Whos Your Daddy

How to Do the Whos Your Daddy Position

In a position with one partner clearly leading — often him standing or kneeling while she is positioned to receive, such as a from-behind or elevated missionary variation — the leading partner takes a confident, directive role, setting the pace, depth, and rhythm while the other partner relaxes into a receptive role. Verbal exchange and a confident, assertive energy are central to this dynamic.

Tips & Variations

This is as much about energy and dynamic as physical position — confidence and playful assertiveness from the leading partner set the tone. Establish boundaries and safe words beforehand if exploring a more dominant dynamic for the first time. Check in regularly to ensure both partners are enjoying the power exchange.

Who Is This Position Best For?

Couples interested in exploring power dynamics within a safe, consensual framework. Best discussed and agreed upon beforehand to ensure both partners are comfortable.