The Driver
He navigates, she rides. The steering is all his — direction, speed, and depth controlled with confident hands and decisive movement.
How to Do the The Driver Position
He kneels or stands behind her as she bends forward, resting her hands or forearms on a bed, counter, or sturdy surface for support. He holds her hips firmly, using them as handles to control the pace, depth, and angle of each movement. Start slow to find the right height and angle — slight adjustments to her stance (feet closer together or further apart) can change the sensation considerably. Communication about speed and depth keeps this position comfortable and enjoyable for both partners.
Tips & Variations
If standing, make sure the surface she is leaning on is stable and at a comfortable height — too low or too high can strain the back. A small step stool can help bridge a height difference. Try alternating between slow, deep movements and quicker, shallower ones to build anticipation.
Who Is This Position Best For?
Couples who enjoy a more dominant-and-receptive dynamic with deep penetration. Works well for quicker, spontaneous encounters as well as longer sessions where the angle can be fine-tuned over time.
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