The Backup Sex Position
She backs into him with confident intention. The approach itself becomes part of the pleasure — anticipation building with every inch closer.
How to Do the The Backup Sex Position Position
She stands with her back to him, leaning forward slightly and bracing her hands against a wall, counter, or headboard, while he approaches from behind, holding her hips to guide the rhythm. The "backing in" approach — she moves toward him rather than him moving toward her — is part of the appeal, building anticipation with each step closer. Once connected, he controls pace and depth with his hands on her hips.
Tips & Variations
A wall or sturdy surface for her hands provides stability and lets her push back into the movement for added control. The slow approach beforehand is worth lingering on — it sets a confident, anticipatory tone for what follows. Communication about the angle of her lean helps find the most comfortable depth.
Who Is This Position Best For?
Couples who enjoy a confident, take-charge dynamic with a from-behind connection. The approach phase makes this a great option for couples who enjoy flirtatious, playful energy.
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about the The Backup position.
How do you do the The Backup sex position?
She stands with her back to him, leaning forward slightly and bracing her hands against a wall, counter, or headboard, while he approaches from behind, holding her hips to guide the rhythm. The "backing in" approach — she moves toward him rather than him moving toward her — is part of the appeal, building anticipation with each step closer. Once connected, he controls pace and depth with his hands on her hips.
What tips make the The Backup sex position better?
A wall or sturdy surface for her hands provides stability and lets her push back into the movement for added control. The slow approach beforehand is worth lingering on — it sets a confident, anticipatory tone for what follows. Communication about the angle of her lean helps find the most comfortable depth.
Who is the The Backup sex position best for?
Couples who enjoy a confident, take-charge dynamic with a from-behind connection. The approach phase makes this a great option for couples who enjoy flirtatious, playful energy.
You Might Also Like
More positions from Romantic Sex Positions
Explore More Positions
Browse all 100+ positions or let the wheel pick one for you.