Cat

How to Do the Cat Position

Similar to missionary but with a key adjustment: she lies on her back with her pelvis tilted slightly upward (a pillow under her hips helps), and instead of deep thrusts, he rocks gently with smaller, grinding movements that maximize contact and friction in the front. The focus is on slow, rhythmic grinding rather than depth — staying close and pressed together throughout.

Tips & Variations

A pillow under her hips is essential — it changes the angle enough to make the grinding motion effective. Communicate about pressure and rhythm, since the technique relies on consistent, sustained contact rather than big movements. This position rewards patience over speed.

Who Is This Position Best For?

Couples focused on her pleasure and looking for a face-to-face position that prioritizes sustained, rhythmic contact. A great option for couples who want intimacy without acrobatics.