68 Her

Almost a 69, but the focus is entirely on her. He gives with complete devotion — her pleasure is the only goal.

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How to Do the 68 Her Position

Both partners lie facing each other in a 69-style arrangement, but the focus shifts entirely to her pleasure — he gives full attention while she relaxes and receives, without feeling obligated to reciprocate simultaneously. This removes the pressure of mutual performance and lets her fully relax into the sensation while he focuses on steady, attentive technique.

Tips & Variations

Removing the expectation of simultaneous giving lets both partners relax — she can fully receive without worrying about reciprocating in the moment. Comfortable pillow support for both partners' heads and necks makes a big difference for longer sessions. Communication about pressure and pace remains key even with the focus shifted.

Who Is This Position Best For?

Couples who want the closeness of a 69-style position without the pressure of mutual simultaneous focus — ideal for sessions centered on her pleasure.

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